"Sex is an emotion in motion"

"At any given moment, public opinion is a chaos of superstition, misinformation, and prejudice." - Gore Vidal

 

Coming to college I realized that everyone has their opinions and they are going to be quick to voice them to the masses. However, through many hours of deep thinking and searching for the right answers I realized there are no right answers, as cliche as that may sound. Everything that happens is never going to go exactly as planned or play out in the exact way society claims it should.

 

Sex is a subject that lingers everywhere. It's in the music we listen to, the movies we watch, and even a part of our education system. Yet no one is really comfortable with admitting the truths of their sexual desires. Everyone is quick to place sex in the dark and put themselves on a innocent pedestal.

 

The aspects of dating have undoubtedly transformed from the time I was in middle school to now. I remember when holding hands use to be the most important thing in the relationship. Now, there's questions of how long before you wait to have sex or when do you know if the relationship is actually going to go somewhere. While everyone is quick to say that it is important to wait until you're in a committed relationship to have sex and it is a bad impression of your character if you do it beforehand, there is no guarantee that even after being in a relationship with someone that they won't leave you after having sex.

Sex is only as important as you and your partner make it. It is up to you to take initiative in choosing when and who you have sex with.

"Sex is more than an act of pleasure, its' the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so connected, so comfortable that it's almost breathtaking to the point you feel you can't take it. And at this moment you're a part of them."

I say make decisions based on what will be best for you and make you happy. & if those decisions don't work out for you then take the chance of trying something different. Life is a process of trial and error. We learn from our experiences, no one else  can tell us what is going to be best for us.